Renowned gynecologist Shkëlqim Balili recently made headlines with his statements during an interview on the show “E Diell.” He emphasized the importance of sexual education, arguing that unhealthy sexual relationships often lead to serious consequences, including psychological trauma and tragic cases such as suicides among teenagers.
The Importance of Education and Safe Relationships
According to Dr. Balili, sexual relationships are an essential aspect of biological life and should be approached with respect and responsibility. He outlined key principles for maintaining healthy sexual relationships:
- Preserving family stability: Avoid actions that could lead to the breakdown of family relationships.
- Preventing unwanted pregnancies: Such situations can cause significant psychological trauma for individuals and couples.
- Respecting your partner: This is vital for a stable and meaningful relationship.
He also highlighted the importance of men showing greater tolerance and respecting the emotional and physical needs of their partners, advocating for mutual understanding and patience.
The Controversy About Reproductive Age
One of the doctor’s most talked-about statements was that women who become pregnant at the age of 30 are considered “old” biologically. Clarifying his remarks, he said:
“The term ‘old’ is not pleasant, but it is biologically accurate. A woman’s reproductive age has limits, and this needs to be considered when planning a family.”
Dr. Balili explained that women go through five main stages of development: childhood, puberty, adolescence, the reproductive period, and menopause. He emphasized that the reproductive period is biologically the most critical phase.
A Troubling Example
Balili shared a concerning case of a 12-year-old girl who became pregnant by a 23-year-old man with a criminal record. He used this example to highlight the lack of education and parental supervision in some cases.
“Sexual education should start at the ages of 5-7 and must be comprehensive and unavoidable,” he said. He stressed that education begins from birth, and a solid foundation in early childhood is essential for healthy development.
A Call for Sexual Education
Balili urged for an open and honest approach to sexual education in Albania. He argued that parents and the education system must play an active role in ensuring children receive accurate and useful information from a young age.
The gynecologist’s statements spark an important discussion about the need to address societal taboos and promote healthy sexual relationships in Albania. Sexual education and awareness are critical steps toward building a healthier society.